Wednesday, March 23, 2011

Plain Jealousy or Possessiveness?




See this? The leg belongs to Mommy, the big hand on the left belongs to Papa and the small hand on the right belongs to Juan Or.

Sometimes when watching television together at night, Papa shows his affection for Mommy by placing his hand on Mommy's leg (sometimes shoulders). And if Juan Or sees Papa putting his hand on Mommy, Juan Or will angrily push or pull Papa's hand away as if Mommy solely belongs to Juan Or! See this series of photos. Everything happened quickly, so the photos are blurred.




Looks like nobody else can touch Mommy except for Juan Or, not even Papa! ^_^

Call it plain jealousy or possessiveness?

19 comments:

Alice Law said...

LOL, guess it's both! The other day Kwang hurt his head, I tried to massage his acupuncture point on the hand, my boy too kiasi-ly rushed to us and took his papa's hand and funked it away!

Next time if got girl friend, can imagine how possessive these boys will be! jialat!

Alice Phua said...

Alice Law, LOL, yalah, I can't imagine if they have girlfriends next time! ^_^

mNhL said...

Hahaha.....the last photo really showed Juan Or using all his energy to pull papa's hand away!

Hayley said...

Hehe, may be he's trying to copy what daddy does... ^^

Sheoh Yan said...

Hahahah! These series of pictures are so funny.

Yvonne said...

Hahaha!! This is call possessiveness!

Alice Phua said...

mNhL, oh, yes, he went "Eeeeeeeeee......!!!" and with a fretful face. :-D

Hayley, LOL, want to be like Papa.

Sheoh Yan, glad you have a good laugh. :-D

Yvonne, just like what I mentioned to ALice Law just now, I can't imagine loh next time if he has girlfriend already and another guy wants to talk to her.

Merryn said...

i guess most kids are like that right? they want their mommies all to themselves :D

reanaclaire said...

NO sharing? :)

Broccoli Ginger said...

Haha! This happened to me as well. my girl will squeeze between us, and my boy will try to separate both of us. :P

Serline said...

Guess it's a phase that kids this age go through, although between papa, mama, je je, gor gor, snowy and ringo, Narelle's fight for possession was doomed from the start ;-P

Kiasu Mom said...

All the kids are the same I think. Mine also like that sometimes.. depends on their mood :-).

Small Kucing said...

the alpha male theory? LOL

Uncle Lee said...

Hi Alice, his mom is a never ending song in his heart of comfort, happiness and being.
He may sometimes forget the words, but he always remembers the tune.
Have fun, Lee.

Mom Daughter Style said...

I can relate to this! RC is a jealous girl too. Me and her dad cannot touch.

Alice Phua said...

Merryn, LOL, I think so too!

Reanaclaire, yup, that's right, no sharing please! ^_^

Broccoli Ginger, Serline and Kiasu Mom, we can high-five!

Small Kucing, LOL! By the way, I have asked Juan Or before many times whether he desires to have a younger brother or sister and guess what? His answer is consistently a 'No'! Looks like he wants to be the one and only.

Uncle Lee, how comforting your words are! Thank you for the comforting words! :-D

Mom Daughter Style, we can high-five for having jealous and possessive babies! ^_^

Adrine said...

My girl is very similar too! Just that she doesn't push daddy away but does the same thing to me so that she gets the same attention. The sure way of getting her to hug me is for me to hug hubby!

Alice Phua said...

Adrine, yup, good tactic, hug hubby first, then she will be challenged to hug you even more! ^_^

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